frndship is a wonderful thing.... its grt to have good frnds.... but then sometimes u wonder how much to do for a frnd...occassionally we tend to go grt places for frnds n then expect them to do the same.... they dont n then u feel bad... ya one can say tht dont expect in frndship but then think frm ur heart .... dont u really wish the person u like would like uwith the same intensity... so everyone tends to have certain expectations which whn not met result in dislike or arguments...n mostly such things if u got by percentage then are common betn frndship which involves a guy n a gal....esp after either of them gets married...betn boys good frnds can n most of time will go very far.... betn girls... hehehe vry rare to c very good frnds... usually some bitchin is involved...no am not discriminatin here...just my observations... maybe am wrong...still... also seen is tht whn u do too much for afrnd of the opp sex then many a times a doubt arises...(mostly its the girl or a frnd of the girl who doubts)....n these silly doubts tend to create problems in the relationship.... no its not tht i am writin this on my personal experience though i wont deny tht i didnt experience such things but recently i metan old frnd on orkut which made me remember some good old days n thts whn i thought bout this....
anyways u just have to learn to ignore all this n go ahead n do d best u can for ur frnd....
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Very interesting viewpoint rahul...
I have had very good friends who are both guys and girls...and I think although bitching is involved betn friends, some of my bestest friends for life..are girls...that's just my experience though..
About the doubts arising betn a friendship betn a guy and a girl...i haven't experienced it yet..but it could happen..but that's when you gotta trust your person......
And I do agree with you...you gotta give it all in a friendship....regardless of whether you get it back or not..... :)
hey rahul i feel in friendship it doesnt mater if its a guy or a girl.it is something above gender.amluckyto have lot of good friends rit 4m my school days re.yes there are times when there were doubts between friends but eventually got resolved /
i hav a friend 4m my md days in mysore who is so selfless yaar.many times i unknowingly hurt him but this guy never ges angry.he may feel bad but never angry.
even i have thought a lot abt what friendship is ,but its dificult to answer ,what i can make out is friendship is something very very pure.
as i grow older i think whether the definition of friendship changes with age.inschool friend was someone to play with,someone in ur team.in junior colege frienship was hanging out in ur group.inmedical colege it was someone who will understand how confused or scared u r.i had very good friends in medical school who knew me so well ,they could jus c my face n make out if somethin was wrong.now out of medical school into the world i have made lot of different kind of friends some elders whom i can always rely on to get me out of a problem .in whatever short period where i have faced problems i havseen that my friends hav stood by me.n i would also stand by them if the need arises
lot of my junior college friends r settedld aboard n i dont get a chance to interact with them as b4.yes things have changed but ialways remeber the good times we had .
lastly i shuld say i am writing 4 first time so lots of things may sound funny or borin but i enjoyed writing it
A person who is satisfied with what and where s/he is in life make great friends!
People who are not, will always compete with their "friends", thus the so called "bitching"between girls!
Personally, my best friends are guys! but i think its jus a coincidence! :) Girls can be gr8 friends too, I AM!! :)
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