is this the SAME Rahul?????

After I have started writin my blogs the first question thts been asked by whosoever reads it is…….”is this written by u???? how can the Rahul we know write some serious topics like these????” And then comes “its good to know the other side of u…” now am starting to wonder am I like a coin with 2 sides???? Maybe theres truth to the Chinese saying that theres a Yin and Yang to everythin… maybe this is the serious side of the always not-so-serious Rahul…J

Even I wondered y I always write serious blogs decided to chek some other ppls blogs… well then I realized by their writings is tht whn writin a blog alone in ur free time we usually try to write something which we cannot discuss to freely with many ppl at the same time….some thoughts which keep lingering in ur mind and to which u looks for answers from others….

Anyways am rushing of to eat some nice roasted peanuts ….. remaining part later sometime….

God resides everywhere….

Where does God reside or rather where do we put up Gods picture…. Just ask urself this question in your mind… maybe u might think of places which are most auspicious or some part of the house which can be considered sacred or by vastu shastra…something like that…even I would do the same…
now this question arose whn I saw Gods picture in a chicken mutton shop… even the ppl who sell meat pray to God tht they might have a good business that day… now if one gives it a thought how do u think God would fulfil their wishes??? Everyone is Gods own creation His own children…humans and animals together… would He to please one child of his sacrifice 10 other children???? This one question intrigues me and one day am going to ask this question to a religious scholar or some Brahmin n hope to get a satisfactory answer….lets see……………..

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Living a stress-free life in a stressful world….

Many a times I see myself surrounded in a very stressful world with people shouting groaning crying irritated angry…. So how can one live at peace in such a surrounding… thinking about it I tried to observe certain things to reduce the stress on myself… to a certain extent I have benefited a lot…thought I would share these and if I can reduce ur stress even by a bit then I would be very happy….

Be optimistic… always c the glass half full n not half empty
Learn to ignore small things which irritate u… (best one) ignorance is bliss
Try not to shout or get angry on anyone…. If u r getting irritated try to say a prayer, a mantra or a song u like… it will calm u down
Don’t be over ambitious… puts u on lot of stress
Try to spend as much time as poss with ur family instead of friends…. This has a long term effect…
Don’t complain to God for anything… for this best would be to go to a hospital and c how ppl suffer frm various life threatening diseases and then u would realize how lucky u r tht God has not put u in their shoes…
N last but not the least….SMILE… don’t ever let go of the smile on ur face… a frowning face attracts frowns… n a smiling face attracts smiles…………

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becomin a doc to serve ppl...???

During mbbs days when we are new to the profession n still in the learning stage many of used to atleast once think in their mind that we would serve the people generously…. After coming into practice I many times think about doing lots n lots of charity work…. But doing charity doesn’t come free…… I come across lots of poor ppl in my opd… some are really very poor n cant afford my opd fees… some cant afford medicines and surgeries… I try to do my level best for them… I can c them for free and even give them sample medicines… but whn it comes to surgeries I seriously get stuck about wht to do…. I recommend them to government or bmc hospitals but then even I want to operate free or at a mere 500 600 at the least, on them… but then am still new into practice and it isn’t tht am earning a real good amount where I can afford to do such charities… makes me feel guilty many a times whn I refuse a patient surgery due to their monetary constraint (and the guilt is more as most of the patients who need cataract surgeries are old and cute)…. I have to first try to secure a future for my family…. So unless n until I do that I cant spend that amt for charity… no.. no one can call me selfish…. Non medical ppl may tend to think so….. but then they too must try n understand us…. We just cant treat everyone for free…. And the situation these days is such tht if we treat one free then the word spreads and suddenly everyone wants free treatment… I conduct free checkup camps once a yr and become part of camps kept by others and at this stage I think am doing good enough for the society on my behalf…. But then the fact remains that someday I want to earn enough tht I can operate free on many needy patients and put a smile on the faces of my good OLD patients…J

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giving an opinion...

Whtever happens makes us think was it right or wrong….who was at fault… usually we give the opinion as to wht we think is right…but then I feel tht before the opinion is given both sides should be considered or rather we should put ourselves in tht place n then give an opinion…. Sanjay dutt case – most of us would think ab jaane do yaar..chod do use… but then think wht must be goin in the mind of the person who has lost his child, his wife, his parents, his peer in the blast… wht must they be feelin… surely if I was in their place I would always want him to be hanged…. Many a time while consoling someone who we feel are cryin over a small reason…the worst thing to say is ‘jaane de yaar, hota hai’…. Well we should think if the same thing had happ with us then wht we may have thought… tht alistairs family the one who mowed down 3 4 ppl in bandra n then proved it was a car prob should be asked wht would they have done if some other alcohol laden person mowed down their child…

Wht I want to say thru this blog is tht once u start thinking about 2 sides or by keeping urself in the persons shoes n then opine then you will always give justice to ur opinions…. Try it…. You would never have a guilty mind after opining urself…. And if wht u decide is wht u feel cannot be accepted to others then just keep it to ur self… after all though speech is silver…..silence is golden…!!!!

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