Tuesday, September 4, 2007

giving an opinion...

Whtever happens makes us think was it right or wrong….who was at fault… usually we give the opinion as to wht we think is right…but then I feel tht before the opinion is given both sides should be considered or rather we should put ourselves in tht place n then give an opinion…. Sanjay dutt case – most of us would think ab jaane do yaar..chod do use… but then think wht must be goin in the mind of the person who has lost his child, his wife, his parents, his peer in the blast… wht must they be feelin… surely if I was in their place I would always want him to be hanged…. Many a time while consoling someone who we feel are cryin over a small reason…the worst thing to say is ‘jaane de yaar, hota hai’…. Well we should think if the same thing had happ with us then wht we may have thought… tht alistairs family the one who mowed down 3 4 ppl in bandra n then proved it was a car prob should be asked wht would they have done if some other alcohol laden person mowed down their child…

Wht I want to say thru this blog is tht once u start thinking about 2 sides or by keeping urself in the persons shoes n then opine then you will always give justice to ur opinions…. Try it…. You would never have a guilty mind after opining urself…. And if wht u decide is wht u feel cannot be accepted to others then just keep it to ur self… after all though speech is silver…..silence is golden…!!!!

ur comments are most welcome...they may motivate me to write more....

1 comment:

Unknown said...

i completely agree with ur wise thoughts....well that makes me wise too :)

we must realise that life has a way of making us pay for our mistakes in one form or the other..so for one dont do wrong and expect baad me dekh lenge..
and two dont support anyone doing wrong
also place your loved one or respected one in the same situation and act in a way u expect they would...that way ull never have to look back at ur deeds and feel sorry for urself...leave ur imprints in the heart and mind of people you come in contact with and not just in the memory!!